Many people find it difficult to get the most out of a relationship. Yet there are simple fixes to this problem. First, know you are worthy of the love you want; secondly make certain you are willing to openly give the type of love you want to receive. This means no pretense or games, you need to commit yourself the action as well as the idea of love. Don’t allow your participation in loving to depend on another’s actions. This robs you of the growth experience loving offers.